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Inside the mind of a cheating boyfriend
I am currently cheating on my girlfriend of 4 years, and to be quite honest I have no intention of stopping. The reason(s) I am cheating are many and varied. I didn’t agree to come on here to be crucified by a bunch of jilted women. If that’s the only thing you can say about me, take it somewhere else as you won’t be telling me anything I haven’t already heard. It is my intention to explain to you how I have been able to get away with cheating on my girlfriend over the past 6 months. A quasi penance from a mildly guilty conscious, if you will. For the remainder of this article, you will be taken inside my head as I go about my daily routine while trying to cover my tracks so my girlfriend doesn’t find out. Here is some background information for reference: I am 30 years old and have a college degree. I am currently employed and make decent (not great) money for a guy my age. I live with my 31 year old girlfriend of 4 years. She has her college degree as well and…
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5 date ideas for Animal Lovers

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Volunteer at an animal shelter. You can spend your first date helping out animals at a dog or cat shelter. Not only will this help the animals, but this will also make both of you feel happy and fulfilled. Being around animals will also put both of you at ease, which will mean better conversations and probably a second date.Hang out at the park. If there is a park in your date’s neighborhood where people bring their dogs, you can casually invite your date to a snack nearby. As soon as you start running out of things to talk about, ask if your date wants to go to a walk in the park. Both of you will enjoy being greeted by dogs there.Take your dogs to the park. If one of you has dogs, that’s even better! You can bring the dogs to the park to play. Bring treats for the dog, and snacks for you and your date. Make sure your date knows there will still be casual dinner or a movie after you drop off the pets at home.Pet and feed animals at the…

How to Have an Orgasm

Leading Date Women tend to have more orgasms with rich partners than with less financially endowed mates. Mother always said it was just as easy to love a rich man as a poor man. Maybe even easier. That’s because women tend to have more orgasms with rich partners than with less financially endowed mates. At least that is what two researchers at the University of Newcastle in Newcastle-On-Tyne, England, have found according to a report in the Times of London. Dr. Thomas Pollet and Professor Daniel Nettle reached this conclusion pondering the question of why women have orgasms at all. Few females in the animal world have anything like our big O. If female humans have acquired the ability to have powerful orgasms, the professors argue, then women will have evolved this ability for a reason. “Women’s capacity for orgasm could be an evolutionary adaptation that serves to discriminate between males on the basis of their quality,” said Pollet. “If so, then it…

Should You Remain “Just Friends”?

Leading Date It’s a timeless question that most of us wonder when we start falling or becoming attracted to one of our seemingly platonic friends: Do you “risk losing the friendship” or do you let it develop into something more?
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Things That Women Wish Men Knew

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https://leadingdate.comThings that women wish men knew It’s ok to kiss on the first date
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